Through my eyes

I learned that who doesn't look for you, doesn't miss you and who doesn't miss you doesn't care for you that destiny determines who enters your life but you decide who stays that the truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. There are three things in life that leave and never return to: words, time and opportunities therefore, value whoever values you and don't treat as a priority whomever treats you as an option.

I found these words when searching for answers.

I feel like the roof has fallen on my head, one brick at a time in slow motion and I was glued to the floor not able to move. Its hard when you get let down by people you trust and people you dearly admire.

Through deep sorrow and unthinkable pain I realised that to achieve change, I had to dispel the fog of self-doubt and develop confidence in my own future behaviour.

"Expressing gratitude, embracing helplessness, and observing nature are just a few ways we can live more cooperatively with the universe." Here are a few tips on how we can release our grip on control and trust the Universe, fromLeo Carver.

Embrace Helplessness: Sometimes when you're at your most desperate, you shine the brightest because in these moments you've arrived at a point of surrender. This occurs when you realize that whatever you're up against is too big to face alone.

Tune Into Love: Love is the force that moves the entire universe. In order to tap into love, it's crucial to understand how love works. Love is grace. Love is helping. Love is caring and sharing. Love is tolerance and understanding. It is so much more than emotion; and it is always there, if you tap into it.

Release What You Cannot Hold: Most of us live in a state of reaction. Your sense of control relates to how much of a "handle on things" you think you have. You probably already know what a self-deceiving concept this is. What is control Is it really just how well or fast one is able to react to what we can't control

Observe Nature: Look at how bountiful and giving nature really is. Observe the beauty and synchronicity of it all. As much as you may feel like a stranger here, you and your life are no accident. This entire universe has conspired to give you experience. This force is in and around you always because you are part of this universe, too. Try to see yourself as part of the works instead of as an outside observer.

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Increase Self-Awareness: Awareness of your thoughts is important to all self-evolving practices. The more you listen to your own mind, the more you will realize the role it plays in your life. Many of the trappings of our life start there. As you learn to trust and cooperate with the universe, you must move beyond these inner limitations.

Listen to Your Intuition: Your intuition is an inner guidance system for your life. Since it comes from a higher, more subtle part of your consciousness, it is often ignored, unheard, or misinterpreted. This part of your being is found in the silence of meditation and deep sleep. While awake, you may hear it in the quiet spaces of your mind, or during brief moments of awareness.

Acknowledge Life's Grace: Every person has known suffering of some kind. Sometimes you may tend to focus more on the negatives than the grace that life bestows on you. Try to understand that attention to the negative is what drives your inner control freak. If you're seeking to build a relationship of trust with the universe, try to spend time focusing on how good it is to you.

Seek Oneness: Look to the unifying principles of your life for the truth of who you really are. Build awareness of yourself as a being having an experience. Your outer life with its actors, dramas, and props is just as much you as your innermost thoughts. You are the all-encompassing experience."

Imagined a state of being in which we can live life the way we want to without struggle. To change for the better, for good. Lets try it.